If it’s not a HELL YES, it’s a NO

2021, We won’t waste any minute with people who don’t put on an effort.

If you read my past articles, you know I am not new to online dating. Still, before breaking up a 14 years marriage, I only had navigated through the ones designed for adulterous, which I have been noticing lately, has a very different dynamic to the regular dating apps.

I was lucky, but because I was always trustworthy and upfront about what I was looking for in an affair partner, I got to meet the three men I developed a long-lasting old fashioned kind of affair pretty quickly; I would say less than one week to find them each time, but of course I got to chat with guys who didn’t worth my time in between, the same ones who are on the site for years and never got to meet anyone ‘up for an NSA Fun’ — ‘Just casual sex.’- ‘ONS to avoid getting attached.’ -yes, there are men innocent enough to think they would meet a worthy lady with those lines. Sad.

But then, there are the ones looking for some sort of emotional connection, good sex, frequent meetings and up to put on an effort to one affair partner, because let’s face it, the more partners, the chance to get caught is more significant, and no one wants to get caught, right?- So, the three men I met through sites like Ashley Madison treated me like a precious diamond…